Single For the Holidays: Why It’s Challenging and How to Rise Above the Pain/Pressureingleness has a ton of benefits, and if you’re not with someone who fuels your fire, encourages you to be your best self, and allows you space and time for what you love, being single might be a far better option for you. We’re not here to tell anyone how to live their lives, but we are here to tell you that you deserve love and celebration no matter what you’re current state of being may look like.