Getting caught up in the same routine can be great, as repetition reads results (or better orgasms) - or so workout instructors say but mixing it up with temperature play can add some serious heat in the bedroom... or bathroom, or kitchen. Starting slow, and getting to know your body and its limits can be enjoyable as well as a well-needed twist to your sex life. Ice play can be ideal no matter the weather outside, so don't get cold feet.
Co- Founder of Psych n Sex, previous writer and campus educator for the Kinsey Institute & published psychology researcher. Manhattan girl obsessed with post ww2 abstract expressionism, beet juice, vintage clothing & Scandinavia.