Health & Emotions

Is there a Secret Ingredient for Desire?

While love and intimacy are enhanced by familiarity and repetition, eroticism is energized by distance and separateness. The secret ingredient of desire is continuous elusiveness that never ceases to intensify eroticism.


Yes, It’s OK to have Rape Fantasies

Don’t freak out if forced sex pops into your head every once and awhile or even daily. You like what you like, embrace it! (Duh, consent is key- do not embrace raping people to fulfill a fantasy.)

Handjobs Aren’t Dead

We will never be that website that gives you the ~* 69 bEsT ways to give a handy* ~ so instead, we’re going to dive into why handjobs shouldn’t be a thing of the past and why it might be advantageous for you and your mouth to incorporate them into your sex life. If you don’t have a penis in your sex life right now, feel free to substitute this with a strap-on or wait for our post about fingering 😉