10 Ways to Start Exploring Your Fetish

Unless someone’s fetish is crossing lines of consent or putting themselves or others at risk, it is their business should never be a source for judgment. As for us, we are positively fascinated with fetishes, and we want to start conversations and encourage individuals to explore their sexual selves rather than repress them for fear of being abnormal. Now, let’s talk fetishes.

Do you find yourself longing to be spanked? Are you interested in feet more than the average bear? Do you love having sex in a specific outfit or costume? Sounds like you just might have a fetish. Don’t be ashamed, we all like what we like and those kinky interests/compulsions range from the most vanilla/standard to the most unorthodox/specific. No matter what it is that gets you going, wouldn’t you say it’s worth delving into?

Evolutionary psychologists believe that the diversity in attraction that comes about through fetishes helps to promote sexual stimulation and therefore the propagation of the species, regardless of the environment it finds itself in. But perspective is everything; we believe that exploring your sexual desires is as interesting as it is fun. If you don’t know what to do or where to start, we’ve put together this quick list of 10 ways to start exploring your fetish!


Co- Founder of Psych n Sex, previous writer and campus educator for the Kinsey Institute & published psychology researcher. Manhattan girl obsessed with post ww2 abstract expressionism, beet juice, vintage clothing & Scandinavia.

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